Saturday, July 5, 2008
In life, you got to learn to get what you want, YOURSELF !!
In life, you got to learn to get what you want, YOURSELF !!
Friday, July 4, 2008
I cried....
I cried....when i was running down my memory lane..
Yes i shed my tears for a broken relationship today. I thought i would never but after 3 weeks...
Was tidying my room today and there it goes.
Lol ..the feeling of losing a love one..
That's life...Part and parcel of life.
Anyway Good Nite.
Hugzzz..!!
Yes i shed my tears for a broken relationship today. I thought i would never but after 3 weeks...
Was tidying my room today and there it goes.
Lol ..the feeling of losing a love one..
That's life...Part and parcel of life.
Anyway Good Nite.
Hugzzz..!!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Job hopping 2
Well, was half way through on 1 july topic - job hopping.
I was saying job hopping, isn't something bad. Maybe you could said that that what i think, but exactly thats what i think and thats why i choose it to be this way. I just cant think this way and pick up your doing, am i right?
Why i said that is not something bad.
As time goes, things get monotonous in your job. U force yourself to step out of the bed every morning, dragging your feet to work. Where is the passion and enthusiasm you show have when you are at the job for the first few days ?
Of course not everyone felt that where in their job but generally seeing people around me - thats the usual case all this years.
Most of us would said because of commitment, car loans, housing loan, daily needs etc...so they would need to stay on for the job and i totally agreed! In this realistic world, we face such dilemma unless U are so damn loaded. Well even U are so loaded, U face what the "loaded" face. Higher car loans, higher housing loans, higher daily needs??
To me, still pretty lucky at this age, not much of commitment or liability except my "babies" at home and some other personal bills. Being employed in a job, is not just being paid, is also about learning new stuffs new environment and new "challenge"
I just cant stick with something that I am going to do repeatedly for (2160hrs) a year, but seriously speaking I really admired people who can do it for like 2160hrs times x number of years.
I would think that constantly changing would bring U to another curve in life be it learning curve or passion in the job. Some would said that job hopping would not be pleasant when you submit your resume to new employer if U ask me I would said is perfectly fine and alright. Oh course most of the time employer would prefer to have a “loyal” employer, BUT if your resume shows and states clearly what you have achieved and your contribution for the past employer. I do not see why there is much of an issue.
As an employer I would want someone that contributes to my company if you are able to give results in a year rather that those who has been around for 10years and not even been giving enough. Why not? Put your resume that way it helps J Focus more on the positive side of your past jobs and not things like because I find that this superior do not like me so I switch a job..Etc...Please do not take it as lying to a stranger …what I meant is put down concrete stuff.
In short, job hopping = not sure of what kind of job suits you.In short, job hopping = helps to maintain a passion and certain level of enthusiasm
A lot of our employers know that we are all tied down with commitment therefore :D
Those employers that manage to keep job hoppers in a job for a long time, I must say that either this person is suddenly committed into tons of liability or the employers said the needs in this person.
I am not encouraging job hopping, but would just like to share how to see and how I felt about job hopping.
Everyone choose their way of living and their style of doing things. Life = no right/no wrong.Do it at your best way.
Do give me your comments if u strongly object my way of thinking, so I could discover more in life.
P.s i am so amazing by the amount of crap i wrote. :P
I was saying job hopping, isn't something bad. Maybe you could said that that what i think, but exactly thats what i think and thats why i choose it to be this way. I just cant think this way and pick up your doing, am i right?
Why i said that is not something bad.
As time goes, things get monotonous in your job. U force yourself to step out of the bed every morning, dragging your feet to work. Where is the passion and enthusiasm you show have when you are at the job for the first few days ?
Of course not everyone felt that where in their job but generally seeing people around me - thats the usual case all this years.
Most of us would said because of commitment, car loans, housing loan, daily needs etc...so they would need to stay on for the job and i totally agreed! In this realistic world, we face such dilemma unless U are so damn loaded. Well even U are so loaded, U face what the "loaded" face. Higher car loans, higher housing loans, higher daily needs??
To me, still pretty lucky at this age, not much of commitment or liability except my "babies" at home and some other personal bills. Being employed in a job, is not just being paid, is also about learning new stuffs new environment and new "challenge"
I just cant stick with something that I am going to do repeatedly for (2160hrs) a year, but seriously speaking I really admired people who can do it for like 2160hrs times x number of years.
I would think that constantly changing would bring U to another curve in life be it learning curve or passion in the job. Some would said that job hopping would not be pleasant when you submit your resume to new employer if U ask me I would said is perfectly fine and alright. Oh course most of the time employer would prefer to have a “loyal” employer, BUT if your resume shows and states clearly what you have achieved and your contribution for the past employer. I do not see why there is much of an issue.
As an employer I would want someone that contributes to my company if you are able to give results in a year rather that those who has been around for 10years and not even been giving enough. Why not? Put your resume that way it helps J Focus more on the positive side of your past jobs and not things like because I find that this superior do not like me so I switch a job..Etc...Please do not take it as lying to a stranger …what I meant is put down concrete stuff.
In short, job hopping = not sure of what kind of job suits you.In short, job hopping = helps to maintain a passion and certain level of enthusiasm
A lot of our employers know that we are all tied down with commitment therefore :D
Those employers that manage to keep job hoppers in a job for a long time, I must say that either this person is suddenly committed into tons of liability or the employers said the needs in this person.
I am not encouraging job hopping, but would just like to share how to see and how I felt about job hopping.
Everyone choose their way of living and their style of doing things. Life = no right/no wrong.Do it at your best way.
Do give me your comments if u strongly object my way of thinking, so I could discover more in life.
P.s i am so amazing by the amount of crap i wrote. :P
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Alcohol...in me...
Last night I went drinking with group of friends, I never like alcohol in me...The feelings.
Something that is so common to me during the younger days but now i detest drinking. Well maybe a little is still acceptable, but nothing more ..(i still cant definite the amount). At times is just for the sake that is a happy occasion, everyone gather and drink. I alway feels that since is just for a happy occasion, a drink will be good but usually you start to see "shows" going on after that few glasses.
People start asking for more because they felt that is a happy occasion therefore is alright to drink more etc... I am sorry but especially when you see guys/ladies start to speak loudly if not they would start to talk about weird things, worst still they make a scene out of themselves around..Is that way to express happiness ?? oR is just ??
When even i drink i feels that my blood flows so much slower...it seems that the blood is resisting to the alcohol and the own body become so numb...Anyway it just dont feel good or make me happy, just wondering how do i felt when i drank last time? The worst thing the next day, you woke up with a heavy head, for those who are more fortune you enjoy sleep the whole day.
Those who have high tolerance to alcohol it might not be a good sign or good news to you. And if you are very particular about healthy food, in fact a can of beer or a shot of volka is just like popping a few teaspoon of butter into your mouth...:P
Anyway to lessen the chance of hangover, have a proper meal before drinking and munch through out the whole drinking session you should be safe and drinks plenty of water the next day! So why bother to diet when you love drinking..keke
I read it somewhere sometime ago that women is more prone to long term alcohol damages.
Google it!! GTG..
Hugzzz !! shall continue my job hopping tomorrow.!
Something that is so common to me during the younger days but now i detest drinking. Well maybe a little is still acceptable, but nothing more ..(i still cant definite the amount). At times is just for the sake that is a happy occasion, everyone gather and drink. I alway feels that since is just for a happy occasion, a drink will be good but usually you start to see "shows" going on after that few glasses.
People start asking for more because they felt that is a happy occasion therefore is alright to drink more etc... I am sorry but especially when you see guys/ladies start to speak loudly if not they would start to talk about weird things, worst still they make a scene out of themselves around..Is that way to express happiness ?? oR is just ??
When even i drink i feels that my blood flows so much slower...it seems that the blood is resisting to the alcohol and the own body become so numb...Anyway it just dont feel good or make me happy, just wondering how do i felt when i drank last time? The worst thing the next day, you woke up with a heavy head, for those who are more fortune you enjoy sleep the whole day.
Those who have high tolerance to alcohol it might not be a good sign or good news to you. And if you are very particular about healthy food, in fact a can of beer or a shot of volka is just like popping a few teaspoon of butter into your mouth...:P
Anyway to lessen the chance of hangover, have a proper meal before drinking and munch through out the whole drinking session you should be safe and drinks plenty of water the next day! So why bother to diet when you love drinking..keke
I read it somewhere sometime ago that women is more prone to long term alcohol damages.
Google it!! GTG..
Hugzzz !! shall continue my job hopping tomorrow.!
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Job hopping
To people who is some distances away from me, tomorrow is the beginning of my job hopping expedition. Yes today is my last day at work(in office not much of work).
Is there such words as hopping ?
Anyway from tomorrow onwards, i will be jobless. Please do not get it wrong is jobless- unwaged, not worthless or useless.
Asked me. Why don't U get a new job then quit the current. We are always caught in such situations, dont we? U got invited for an interview, the new employer decided to take U in and they entice U with a little more benefits than what U are having now, because U want to leave and U just jump into the new job.
Maybe i am stereotyping but by and large i believe a lot of us met such situation before.
What's your view on people who job hop or job hopping?
Me? I think job hopping is definitely not something bad.Why ?
If U look from what I see U might discovered something new :D Maybe?
I will update this on the next post, gonna prepare a farewell mail to my company and people who have been rowing this boat with me.
HUGZZZ !!!
Is there such words as hopping ?
Anyway from tomorrow onwards, i will be jobless. Please do not get it wrong is jobless- unwaged, not worthless or useless.
Asked me. Why don't U get a new job then quit the current. We are always caught in such situations, dont we? U got invited for an interview, the new employer decided to take U in and they entice U with a little more benefits than what U are having now, because U want to leave and U just jump into the new job.
Maybe i am stereotyping but by and large i believe a lot of us met such situation before.
What's your view on people who job hop or job hopping?
Me? I think job hopping is definitely not something bad.Why ?
If U look from what I see U might discovered something new :D Maybe?
I will update this on the next post, gonna prepare a farewell mail to my company and people who have been rowing this boat with me.
HUGZZZ !!!
VOID 2
Good Morning, 1more mins to 12noon. But by the time i post should be Good Afternoon already.
Anyway where were we yesterday night?
How does this void came about? Not sure.
Talking about how to "eliminate" the Void? Not sure.
Some suggested that to be able to step up of old relationship, you must engaged into a new relationship to forget the old one. What say U?
Me said...Why it gonna be that way??
Eventually what you can't forget is the person, the things you used to do so starting a new relationship you might be doing new things, change a little of your lifestyles..etc.
Kewl !!...back from lunch...stretched...2hours lunch.
Anyway i am not saying that this new person will substitute the old memories/person.
We need to move on, of course if possible get involve in a relationship. But but understanding yourself is more important rather then getting involved blindly again, by changing and replacing again and again. Don't you find that it becomes a habit and this cycle never stop and eventually you ended up no where?
Anyway where were we yesterday night?
How does this void came about? Not sure.
Talking about how to "eliminate" the Void? Not sure.
Some suggested that to be able to step up of old relationship, you must engaged into a new relationship to forget the old one. What say U?
Me said...Why it gonna be that way??
Eventually what you can't forget is the person, the things you used to do so starting a new relationship you might be doing new things, change a little of your lifestyles..etc.
Kewl !!...back from lunch...stretched...2hours lunch.
Anyway i am not saying that this new person will substitute the old memories/person.
We need to move on, of course if possible get involve in a relationship. But but understanding yourself is more important rather then getting involved blindly again, by changing and replacing again and again. Don't you find that it becomes a habit and this cycle never stop and eventually you ended up no where?
So biased but its not gonna work on me. Imagine what i want is an apple, but apple is out of stock. Come by an orange, U try and it does not suit U so you try a pear, neither it goes well. Afterall is just a never ending cycle till you are so tired of trying and you ended to have a watermelon or grape which is something just so far from what U want and try to make do with it.
Think! How many times such things happen to U, maybe not U maybe someone else. After rummpage around, unintentionally U have create so many void to others :P There is people saying that the "trend" or the In things to do now, everyone is doing that - nothing wrong.
At least to me, things do not work that way. Obstinate? Nope just my belief, my way and my view. Everytime I go in, I strike hard. Either I win or I will drop die.Of course there is no win or lose in a relationship, No is not a game or challenge is just something I believe! Be true to Urself, be true to others, on the other hand the truth alway hurts.
Once again, what I mention is what i believe and what i preached. Endless debates makes my brain works, curiosity is always in me.
Seriously if U ask me, relationship is nothing worth pondering about because is just not as simple as what i related as apple, orange or pear. There is no right or wrong, there is no formula or SOP. Is just what comes may, in life there is just too much of grayness but these grayness is the things that keep life always exciting and always ready to discover what lies between.
I am wondering where is my apple? or i have become an orange in the process?
Talking about this I saw a Peugeot 207 and its rings my bell about a friend of mine.
BRB.
Thomas VOID
Seems that my new obsession/addiction is does not filled up this void........
Void - extracted by wiki
In astromy, voids are the empty spaces between filaments.
Void - Emptiness, empty spaces.
This Void seems so strong, stronger than what i could imagine.But has anyone wondered what/who creates this emptiness or is it just something that always occur in thinking animal - thoughts.
Some suggested is just emptiness in individual, some said is a habit that you are missing of...Some said to "replace" this void you would need someone to do it, some said keep yourself busier than ever... I say......
HUGS!! Good Night will continue tomorrow morning. Kinda of sleepy :P
Void - extracted by wiki
In astromy, voids are the empty spaces between filaments.
Void - Emptiness, empty spaces.
This Void seems so strong, stronger than what i could imagine.But has anyone wondered what/who creates this emptiness or is it just something that always occur in thinking animal - thoughts.
Some suggested is just emptiness in individual, some said is a habit that you are missing of...Some said to "replace" this void you would need someone to do it, some said keep yourself busier than ever... I say......
HUGS!! Good Night will continue tomorrow morning. Kinda of sleepy :P
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