Fisherman's day 2

Good evening! Wasted almost a whole day doing .....nothing ?
To share my joy, this afternoon postman came beeping outside my gate there is a registered mail, signed as usual. It a letter for $30 voucher and there is another letter for me. From my previous employee and it is a payslip. Guess what, after i quited the company i will still be getting my flexible bonus!! LOL how wonderful life is...although is not a vast sum but it does make me feel delighted.

Anyway back to yesterday topic - fisherman.
In one of the part, there is this story about a fisherman and a business man. Not sure if anyone heard this before.
These is this business man who went for a "recharge" trip in a rural village and he saw this fisherman who is easily contented and seems to be very happy all the while. So he approached him and asked the fisherman. "Sir, what do you do for a living and what else you does beside fishing." So the fisherman told him, he loving fishing every morning he will have his breakfast with their children and he will go fishing when the children is out for school. When he have enough fishes, he will pack up and go home, they will prepare for dinner. When the sun set, he will have a scroll with the family at the beach. So the businessman ask him why he do not fish more and sell it to make money so he could have enough money for retirement, to do things that he enjoyed doing. Fisherman asked the business man:"So what i should do during my retirement? Is it to have meals with the family, scrolling on the beach with my wife and to fish everyday because i love fishing? "
The fisherman walked off, smiling to the business man.

From my point of view, this part of the story tells me. The business man has been thinking of making enough money for retirement but yet at the same time he neglected something he could look upon in life beside making money.

These years down the road, i thinking i am becoming like the fisherman, i am easily contented with things. I dropped my big dreams and goals, so would said i lose my goals some would said i am too easily contented. Some would said i should be ambitious. Everyone have an opinon on what i think.

At the same time, I became a melancholic person because the environment, the people around condemned my thinking. I thought is just blissful to be simple, is money that important? Is really owning a car that important? Is staying in a landed property?

I guessed a lot of people would want to be that fisherman but due to the environment that we are in we are forced to become a "business man". Our level of commitment, our lifestyles, almost everything we do is a big deal to us.

The author lives in Orlanda, Florida where my brother is now. I am going to find out from him how is the life of the people there.

Back to the topic, this few days although I told myself i should emptied out my mind but some stuffs just kept pondering in my head non stop.I will have another side of the coin to show.....
Whether to be a fisherman or business man, is everyone's choice. Is very individual. There is no right or wrong but do share your views with me.

Good Night! Hugzzz !!!

A fisherman's day

Before i starting writing, i would like to say i hate fri, sat and sun. Its seems so hard to get over these days. After 1 months and yet that sucky feeling is still around. WHY!

Yesterday i cycled to paris ris beach, stood by the side of shore. There was this uncle who is catching fishes using a net at the beach. Something then strike my mind... Two years ago exactly this date, I read about this book - The Why Are You Here Cafe, the author is John P.Strelecky. The book wrote about a guy who lost his way when driving and he came to this cafe named Why are you here cafe, in a isolated area.



The owner of the cafe helps John to see his purposes in life.I will not make a summary if you are interested, you can buy it off shelf or borrow it from me. There is a part where the book wrote about a fisherman and a business man.


Let me buy myself sometime i am going out, be writing this when i am back.

Something light on the menu

Always on heavy topics, let's have some thing light now :P To fulfill those ppl who needs some visualization while reading.

Tiny - one of my "babies" at home. He hatched to this world on 24 April 2008.

He is a lover bird, got his parents and managed to have Tiny coming to this world
29 April
He is out for a couple of days somemore eggs around him. The pictures is not very clear but i guess you could figure out something there.

Thats his mum, taken at night. His mum trying to "protect" him.

11 May - sticking his head out of the nest box.

15 May - Green feathers starts "popping" out.

27 May - ready to fly ?

Dinner time!! for me and them!!

Meeting up

Met up my mum yesterday evening, for those who do not know. She is a divorcee, of course with my dad. 19years........... Recent years, we got in touch and met up a couple of times.

Life is just obstacles and challenges every single day we live on. We spoke and she has some problems that she is facing, well is not much of monetary issues(would be easier if it is money, almost everyone is dying for money, cant understand Y...)
Spoke to and advise her a little, after our conversation I realise her "mentality" is just like my dad.. i wondered why they divorce but is not my concern. Somehow or rather, my evil thought starts thinking why not i match make them together back, anyway 49 and 46 years old is not that old to remarry..Haha..
Both did not remarry to others, yet they still asking me about each other....Hmm.....Only if i can put them together it will be easier to manage. Hahahaha

There is a singer/actor (cant remember her name) ever said :" Life is a sad song but still sings the beauty for their loved ones. " How true..

Our meet up refreshs something :
- Life is not about looking backward is to see what lies in the future right ?(saying is always easier than doin it.)

Last night just before i sleep, i have learnt something. I still do not know how to decipher it into works Just so amazing...

Drizzling ...

Hey hey, welcome back!

Overhauled my bicycle, total damage - S$111, got a dollar discount thru :P

It did not pour but it did drizzle a little. Although is not heavy enough to even wet my clothes but it managed to shower my heart with that wonderful indescribable feeling... just like ...

To think back life is so ridiculously astonishing. Really... think think think..and i got feedback no visual effect on my blog!! Give me sometime, will put up what is requested!

Bath Time !!

Good Nitez. Hugzzz !!!

Bad weather, cool mood

Seems like is going to rain at the east side....been so long i ever cycle in the rain. I really hope it will rain when i am cycling back later....

The feeling, the mood is so wonderful and it has been so long so long.

Alcohol again ?

LOL. I just let my body resist alcohol again just now....Just came back from another drinking session with a friend.., still managable to write this blog :P

One who detest alcohol have being "on" it for twice a week..
Don misunderstood.... i am not "jie ju siao chou" i also never believe in that, just happened that so happened that....

LOL...zzzz already.

Good Night!! Hugzzz!!!!